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This article on sexting I found very interesting.  As I understand it. Dutch teens are not into sexting and the ones that are quote  “were less satisfied with their lives, had higher levels of sensation-seeking . . . and were lower educated,” but as I pointed out theunhappy teens sext other day some surveys in North America claim that between 20 and 60% of teens are sexting so does that mean 20 to 60% of  North American teens are unhappy, like to show off and don’t do well in school. I would love your view on this one.

Another study links ‘sexting’ to sexual activity in teens 

By Randy Dotinga
HealthDay Reporter

FRIDAY, Nov. 9 (HealthDay News) — A new study of Dutch teens finds that few of them frequently engage in risky online activity related to sex, such as sending naked photos to strangers and searching for sex partners, but those who do are more prone to have casual sex in real life.

“There seems to be a relationship between engagement in online and offline sexual risk behavior,” said study author Susanne Baumgartner, a graduate student at the University of Amsterdam. “Adolescents who engaged in offline sexual risk behavior were also likely to engage in online sexual risk behavior.”

Should parents be worried? Most kids don’t engage in risky online activity related to sex, which is a “reason not to worry too much,” Baumgartner said. However, there is extra risk for adolescents who “seem to be troubled in their everyday lives.”

“Sexting” by teens — sending naked or partially naked photos to other people via cellphones — has been reported in the American media in recent months. Some research suggests it’s fairly common. Teens also use the Internet to make friends and meet other teenagers.

The authors of the new study wanted to understand how “risky” sexual behavior online (talking with strangers about sex on the Internet, searching for someone to have sex with and sexting to strangers) is related to “risky” sexual behavior offline (having casual sex).

Baumgartner’s team surveyed over 1,700 Dutch adolescents aged 12 to 18. Those at highest risk of risky behavior online “were less satisfied with their lives, had higher levels of sensation-seeking . . . and were lower educated,” the study authors found.

The researchers suggested that kids at higher risk deserve more attention in terms of preventing risky sexual activity.

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I don’t want to be rude here but is Guelph behind the times or what? Guelph claims to be ones of Canada’s smartest cities. ( see quote below) But when an article claims that parents may have never heard of sexting and that surveys show that 20 to 60% of teens are sexting. Come on. Any parent with a teenage son or daughter needs to keep up with what’s happening in the teen world if they want to be a good parent and be there for them. Even through the teen wants nothing to do with their parents. Parents are not cool and don’t  understand teens. Yeah right, like we where never a teen. We all did the same stupid things its just the technology has changed and now the world can see you doing something stupid not just your so called friends. As I keep saying sending dirty text messages is fine just don’t send that nude image unless you are over 18 and want a career as a porn star.

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As for the 20 to 60% remark that’s a big margin of difference.  yes sexting is a issue and teens brains are not wired right to handle the result if it all goes wrong. The bigger problem here is kids need to learn how to be kids again and not grow up so fast. Kids and teens don’t need a mobile phone with a camera or a PC with a camera in there bedroom. A simple text only phone is all they need to let you know where they are. The PC should be in a family area so you can keep an eye on what they are up to just quietly.

 

Guelph Police Warn Parents of Teen ‘Sexting’

Web posted on November 07, 2012

Parents may have never heard of it, but surveys show that 20 to 60% of teens are doing it: “sexting”. While this troubling trend continues to rise, parents, teachers and lawmakers struggle to respond appropriately to a phenomenon placing kids at risk for exploitation, harassment, and even criminal charges. “Our officers conducted investigations where “sexting” was an issue. We are hoping that by providing this information to parents and teens that they will strike up dialogue and reduce the lasting, harmful effects of “sexting”. We feel that knowledge is power in addressing this issue,” commented Sgt. Doug Pflug.

What is “Sexting”?: It typically refers to teens sharing nude photos via cellular phone, but also includes other devices and the Internet. This practice can carry serious legal and psychological consequences. Teens and adults alike – Please consider these tips!

It is Illegal: Teens – Do not take or transmit nude or sexually suggestive photos of yourself or anyone else. If you do, you could be charged with Producing or Distributing Child Pornography.

Non-Legal Consequences: Beware the effects of emotional and reputational damage that can come from having intimate photos of yourself sent to a friend later forwarded along without your consent or knowledge.

Many Causes: In some cases, kids are responding to peer-pressures from a boyfriend or girlfriend or in the form of cyber-bullying. In cases of break-up, photos often get transmitted out of revenge or blackmail. At other times, the behaviour is simply impulsive or flirtatious. In any case, it is bad idea!

Parents: Talk with your kids. Express your concerns in a conversational, non-confrontational manner. Open, two-way communication can greatly assists kids in understanding the legal, social and psychological risks associated with “sexting”.

A vibrant community of over 120,000 people, Guelph is ranked among the top ten places to live in Canada. The city is located in one of the strongest economic regions in the country – 100 kilometres west of Toronto, just east of Kitchener-Waterloo. Guelph is rich in culture, architecture, parks and riverside green spaces. In 2009 Guelph was also named one of the country’s smartest communities, its safest city, and Canada’s volunteer capital.

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Does Snapchat make sexting safer?

I found this article of interest, Snapchat was meant to be the safe way to send naked images without fear of them been passed on. Now it looks like there is a loop hole. Ok the person you send your nude text to may want to keep an image of you in your birthday suit so they take a screen shot real quick so they can keep it. Then later on when you break up  in a fit of rage send the image onto all your friends. So what you wanted to be private is now out in the public domain. So keep your cloths on and just send the dirty text messages, let their imagination do the rest.

Millions of teenagers have adopted a smartphone app which has been touted as a way of safely “sexting” and sharing naked pictures. But is it really a safe way to share intimate photographs of yourself?

 

Snapchat, which is available for both iPhone and Android devices, describes how senders can control how long a message or picture can be seen for, before it expires after a maximum of 10 seconds:

Snapchat is the fastest way to share a moment with friends.

You control how long your friends can view your message –
simply set the timer up to ten seconds and send.

They’ll have that long to view your message and then it disappears forever. We’ll let you know if they take a screenshot!

It sounds like a neat solution, if the picture is only visible for 10 seconds – that reduces the opportunity for others to forward it around the school campus, or post it for all to see on Facebook.

But the truth is that anyone can take a screenshot of their device (if they are nimble fingered enough) and create their own copy of the image.

The Snapchat app says it will tell you if someone takes a screenshot, but what action are you going to take if you share a photo in confidence, only to discover that someone has chosen to keep a permanent record?

Furthermore, there are “how-to” guidelines online explaining how jailbroken iPhones can subvert Snapchat, and take snapshots without informing the image’s sender.

A less high-tech method to grab the image is to simply take a photograph of the phone that has just received the nude photo. And then there’s no way the Snapchat app can tell you if that’s happened.

Some experts in the field of child safety online are clearly concerned that young people and children might be fooled into thinking that Snapchat is a safe way to share nude and inappropriate photographs of themselves.

Snapchat’s privacy policy even admits that it can’t actually promise any naked photos you send through the app will be only available for ten seconds.

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This made interesting reading.

Written by Sade Oguntola Tuesday, 30 October 2012

Nobody is actually going to get a sexually transmitted disease because they are sexting or sending sexual text messages, including photos. Nonetheless, experts warn that adolescents who indulge in sexting were more likely to engage in unprotected sex, reports Sade Oguntola.
sexting is dangerousOften times, when schools restrict the use of smart phones, many question the rationale behind this, stating that when students have their personal phones, communication with their parents would be easier.

While some schools allow cell phones without cameras, some ban the use of cell phones outright because students end up playing games during classes or passing messages to one another when classes are ongoing.

“I did not know you called me in school because my cell phone was placed in silence mode. My teacher must not see it or else it will be seized. You remember the school had banned students bring phones to school after they found students posting nude pictures to their mates,” responded Helen to her mother’s probing.

Smart phones can be a very useful tool, but in the hands of unsupervised teenages they can be very destructive. Parents who allow their children to have cell phones, especially smart phones, must work to be aware of how such children use the cell phones.

A smart phone is more like a computer and can be hacked into as easily as a computer. For instance, any information, including photos sent somewhere electronically can end up on the Internet.

Sexting, which is the practice of sending sexual text messages, including photos, usually by use of cell-phones, is rapidly becoming popular among adolescents. “Sext” has been around since about 2005 and the idea of exchanging or recording sexual material is not a new concept.

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This article makes some good points about teens sexting. Its not just teens. Adults sext as well. Now there is nothing wrong with a bit of sexy word play but when you start to post sext pictures of yourself or other people on line then things can go wrong big time. So keep your sexting to just painting an erotic picture instead of senting an erotic picture. Let the mind fill in the details. Its much more sexy that way.

There’s a rather larger problem with this teenage phenomenon of sexting that this report suggests. They’re warning of the way in which teenagers sometimes (often perhaps?) take suggestive pictures of themselves and then post them to friends or onto social media sites. These pictures are then often taken, lifted, and placed onto so-called “parasite porn sites”. The warning being that you don’t want to release any suggestive pictures because you’ll almost certainly lose control of them.

The legal problems go much, much further than this. It’s entirely possible that people could end up in jail as a result of these parasite sites….More at The Perils Of Sexting And Parasite Websites – Forbes

So keep your sexting safe but have fun with it. Have you downloaded the 130 sexting examples yet? There are some great sexting examples in it and some sound advice on keeping yourself safe.

Just what is your sexting personality?

Are you any of the 5 sexing types below? As its proven that females sext more than males I would have thought that there would have been female types. What to you think? Comment below.

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Sexting Ban goes too far

Sexting Ban madThis report from PCmag  is a bit of a worry. If a Telecom provider can block your text just because you are using a term or phrase that some official does not like, well life just got a lot harder, Sorry can’t use that word need to find another one. Well life just got more complicated. So what happens? You send a text and the person that receives it  gets a message like this.

Its going to be so much xxxxxx to get in your xxxx xxxx now that its broken.

Lets be real people the only reason for the ban is so Pakistan Telecom Authority can make more money. Because you are going to have to send 3 times the number of texts to get you message across or you will give up altogether and ring the other person up and just have to talk to them, which of course is at a higher rate than texting. Its all about the money.

Sexting is about to get a lot harder in Pakistan (no pun intended). The Pakistan Telecommunication Authority (PTA) has handed down a ban on about 1,600 terms and phrases it has deemed obscene, including the word “harder,” for one. 

Carriers were given the list on November 14 with a letter telling them they have seven days to block the words on their networks, or face legal action. 

Words on the list, which has been floating around on Twitter, run the gamut from “barf” to “Jesus Christ” to “back door” to “do me.” 

“There are more than 1,600 words in the list including indecent language, expletives, swear words, slang, etc., which have to be filtered,” an “official” at a one of the telecoms told the AFP. “The filtering is not good for the system and may degrade the quality of network services – plus it would be a great inconvenience to our subscribers if their SMS was not delivered due to the wrong choice of words.”

The officials that compiled the list must have vivid imaginations. Published in both English and Urdu, it includes such words and phrases as “idiot,” “monkey crotch,” “athlete’s foot,” “damn,” “deeper,” “four twenty,” “fornicate,” “looser,” and “go to hell,” among others. There are also various double entendres included in the ban such as “beat your meat” or “flogging the dolphin.”

Twitter users are lashing out against the ban under the hashtag #PTABannedList. 

As of Sunday, texts including the barred words were still being transmitted, the AFP said. However, the Guardian pointed out that according to its tests, the technology blocking the “offensive” texts might not be totally effective.

Pakistan’s constitution guarantees freedom of speech, however the Guardian said the PTA told carriers that this right “was ‘not unrestricted’ under court rulings.” It also said that telecoms are responsible to stop “obnoxious communication.”

Going forward, the PTA will also require mobile companies to submit a monthly report on their implementation of the ban. 

The PTA has not commented publicly on the matter.

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There is good sexting and bad sexting. Good sexting is between to consenting adults that are in a relationship and just want to spice things up a bit. See Adults Sexting

Bad sexting is when children or teenagers are involved in sextng when they do not wish to be but feel pressured to do so to fit in. Or when an adult male or female sends inappropriate images to someone that is under age.

There are a number of systems available to protect children online. I can across this one for Facebook. I have not tested it nor do I get a commission for promoting it  I just feel there is a time for good sext and no one should ever bad sext.

The below is an extract from the EyeGuardian website

EyeGuardian detects sexting images and text posted to Facebook.

Underage nudity constitutes child pornography and not only is sending it illegal, but simply having it on your computer, cell phone or online account constitutes harboring and distributing child pornography. This is what happens when today’s technology lacks parental intervention. Sexting can vary from an SMS text message of a sexual nature sent from cell phone to cell phone, to naked photos and even pornographic videos.

The epidemic of Sexting is so pervasive among teens, and is now being imitated by pre-teens, that finally not only are parents appalled, but the legal system can no longer ignore it. Far from innocent flirting online, under existing laws, courts are now prosecuting teens as felons. Underage nudity has always been illegal, but now additional laws are being written and enforced to specifically target the crime of sexting. Sext photos teens take of themselves undressed are commonly making their way from their cell phones to their Facebook accounts. Even if your child didn’t take the photo, if they just pass it along, it is criminal. This presents the very real danger of trashing the reputations of all involved as well as discipline and criminal charges from school, city and federal authorities.

 

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As much as teenagers think they are grown up and ready for the big bad world this study yet again proves that sexting is an adult activity. Unless you are over 18 or what ever the legal age for consent is in your area, stay a child don’t grow up to fast, you have such a short time a child and a very long time an adult. I know that it feels like your a kid forever but make the most of it while you can. Never do something like sext just because everyone else is doing it. They may say they are doing it just to sound grown up but I’ll bet a good number of teens are all talk when it comes to sexting so do not give in to peer pressure, stick to your family values. If  your family does not have any values then you can be the first to get some. 10% are sexting so thats 90% that are not. If you ask your friends whats the percentage?

Survey of Boston-area students found more signs of depression in those involved in Sexting

November 2, 2011

By Lisa Esposito
HealthDay Reporter

WEDNESDAY, Nov. 2 (HealthDay News) — Some Boston parents might be in for a rude awakening: 13 percent of area high school students say they’ve received “sext” messages and one in 10 has either forwarded, sent or posted sexually suggestive, explicit or nude photos or videos of people they know by cellphone or online.

So found a study of more than 23,000 students, with the results scheduled to be presented Wednesday at the American Public Health Association’s annual meeting in Washington, D.C.

Sexting can include overtones of bullying and coercion, and teens who are involved were more likely to report being psychologically distressed, depressed or even suicidal, according to the 2010 survey of 24 (of 26) high schools in Boston’s metro-west region.

Twice as many respondents who said they had sexted in the past year reported depressive symptoms, compared to teens who did not. Moreover, 13 percent of teen involved in sexting reported a suicide attempt during that period compared with 3 percent of non-sexting teens, according to the researchers at the Education Development Center in Newton, Mass.

That doesn’t mean that sexting leads to depression or increases suicide risk. “It’s a cross-sectional study — it shows an association but not a causal relationship,” explained lead researcher Shari Kessel Schneider.

However, she added, “It’s important to know there’s a link between sexting and psychological distress. It’s something to be considered if you know of a youth who is involved in sexting.”

Of the high-school students, 10 percent of boys and 11 percent of girls said they had sent one of these images in the past year, while 6 percent of males and 4 percent of females had had such an image sent of themselves.

The researchers also found that youths who did not self-identify as heterosexual — that is, they described themselves as gay, lesbian, bisexual other or not sure — were more likely to be involved in sexting.

Other studies have examined sexting on a national basis, prompting parents to question how they can prevent their own children from posting — or posing for — these images.

“I encourage parents to treat a kid’s cellphone as a computer: thinking of securing, protecting and limiting it,” said Marian Merritt, Internet safety advocate for Norton, part of Symantec Inc. As soon a child receives his or her first cell phone, “Set family rules. Age 12 is standard.”

“If that phone is a smartphone, password protect it,” she said. “It could prevent your child getting victimized” by someone else who picks it up and uses it. And to monitor your son’s or daughter’s use: “Check your online statement, to see if your child is sending a lot of photo messages.”

Parents need to take back control of the technology, she said, whether it’s by setting online time limits on the home wireless router or limiting access and privacy: “Charge the phone in the kitchen, some central location, so it’s not on their pillow, buzzing late at night with text messages.”

Talk to your children, she said. “Don’t wait until they’re 16, that’s exactly the wrong way to do stuff. Start much earlier. Especially with boys, know how incredibly common it will be for them to receive a [sext] message. Ask them, ‘What would you do?’ What’s the right thing to do to protect the girl? Delete it?’ Try to make sure he shows empathy for the girl.”

Some adolescents will be more affected than others, Merritt said. “In general, with all the things on the Internet, it’s very hard to predict who will be impacted. Some kids are able to roll with it and there are others who can’t.”

Justin Patchin, co-director of the Cyberbullying Research Center, said his first advice to teens who receive a sext message is this: “You should delete it and not tell anybody. If it’s doesn’t get disseminated and distributed, it’s ended.”

He said he’s received flak for suggesting on the center’s website that kids don’t always need to go to adults when sexting involves a friend (or girlfriend or boyfriend), but he still believes, “If you tell adults, you’re throwing that person under a bus.” Once people in authority, such as teachers and principals, are made aware of sexting, legal reporting requirements come into play.

“Adults, it seems, are forced to respond to sexting in extreme ways — ways that have long-term, irreversible consequences,” he posted in February. “Until we can develop reasonable responses that do not potentially foreclose on the futures of all involved, we are wise to advise that students do not contact adults, unless the situation is appearing to get out of control. And I think teens know when it is out of control.”

Patchin doesn’t discount that sexting can have serious ramifications. “You can look at high-profile examples, of people with severe psychological problems,” he said, referring to two publicized cases of young girls committing suicide where sexting was a factor.

In his center’s dealings with sexting, he said, “We’ve talked with frustrated, embarrassed, upset kids.”

Merritt cautioned against overreacting about the findings and said she would like to see more data, for instance, on how sexting relates to teens’ gender orientation.

Kessler Schneider’s group does intend to do more studies in that area. For now, she said, the Boston findings should “draw attention to the link between sexting and mental health, which should be addressed by anti-bullying and health-promotion initiatives.”

Because the new study was presented at a medical meeting, the data and conclusions should be viewed as preliminary until published in a peer-reviewed journal.

10% are sexting so thats 90% that are not. If you ask your friends are they sexting. Whats the percentage who say the are? Let me know the percentage. How do you feel about this report? Leave a comment below.
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Sheriff’s Office Participates In Anti-”Sexting” Video

 From the Leesburg2day website come this great news report. As I keep saying there is the right time and place for sexting. And no time or place is right for anyone under 18.

Posted: Friday, September 30, 2011 2:54 pm

The Loudoun County Sheriff’s Office is working to spread the word about the legal and personal dangers associated with cyberbullying and sexting. Sheriff’s Deputy Specialist James D. Spurlock recently participated in the premier edition of a web TV series, Internet Protocol, focusing on online privacy, electronic stalking, how to deal with cyberbullying and sexting.

The first episode of Internet Protocol was designed as a candid discussion on sexting and featured Spurlock, who is a member of the sheriff’s office’s Crime Prevention Unit. The video discusses the dangers and possible legal and emotional ramifications of sexting.

“We try to teach kids to take a second, when you are about to send that message-when you are about to send that picture, when you are about to send that risqué message to your boyfriend or girlfriend- take a second and think,” Spurlock said. “If this message, this picture, or this text message was to be broadcast to the entire school; would I want that to happen? If the answer is no, then don’t do it.”

The sheriff’s office is encouraging parents and teenagers to watch the video, noting that a recent study showed 39 percent of teenagers surveyed had sent sexually suggestive messages or images by text or Internet, and 48 percent of the teens surveyed admitted to receiving sexually suggestive material on their portable devices.

 

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As a fan of adult sexting I find this more than a bit disturbing. In most countries the transmission of sexual images of people under the age of 18 is treated as Child Porn. You do not want to be connected with child pron in any form. Unless you are 100% comfortable with the world viewing your sext then don’t do it, Just because you sent it to one person does not mean that it will not be passed on and posted on the Internet.

Teens start sexting to fit in – study
MARK METHERELL
Last updated 05:00 01/10/2011

Teenagers are feeling pressure to send sexual images of themselves and others by mobile phone in what is becoming a potentially pervasive practice of ”sexting”, according to government-funded research.

Young people are experiencing pressure not only from each other but also from the “insidious” influence of a sexualised media culture that pressured them to be involved in sexting in order to fit in, Melbourne University researcher Shelley Walker says.

Ms Walker told the Australasian Sexual Health Conference in Canberra yesterday young men were made to feel their masculinity was in question if they were not into sexting.

Women also felt pressure to participate when they saw sexted images of their friends.

Ms Walker, of the primary care research unit at Melbourne University, said her study involved interviews with 15 male and 19 female participants, aged 15 to 20. All of those interviewed had “at least one story to share, if not more”.

She gave vignettes of the lurid images the interviewees had described, including pictures of nudity and sex acts.

Ms Walker, whose research was supported by the federal Health Department, said it highlighted the need for young people to have a greater say in how to respond to the phenomenon of sexting.

She said the study drew attention to the potentially pervasive nature of sexting.

There was now a free sexting app available for young people to download to their smartphones, which although it promoted safe sex, “does highlight how potentially normalised this behaviour has now become”.

The interviewees talked about the increasingly sexual nature of advertising and the sexual behaviour of adult role models, including those in music videos.

She quoted a 16-year-old boy who said he thought sexting was a big problem no one was looking at seriously and feared “it’s going to be everywhere”.

Another speaker said candid early sex education would not only result in Australian teenagers having their first sexual experience later but also reduce unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections.

Researcher Alan McKee said the more relaxed and open approach to sex education in the Netherlands had delivered a significantly better result for young people, contradicting the grim warnings of child sexualisation voiced in Australia.

Professor McKee, who heads a sexuality development research project at Queensland University of Technology, said the campaign by those claiming early sex education prompts “sexualisation of children” was counterproductive and resulted in Australian teenagers having first sex, on average, 18 months earlier than Dutch teens.
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He said there was a significantly more open and relaxed approach to discussion of sexuality by Dutch youth and their parents, where the average age of first sex relationships was 17½ compared with 16 in Australia.

The Netherlands also had a significantly lower rate of sexually transmitted infections and unwanted pregnancies among young people.

Professor McKee said early comprehensive sex education did not encourage early sex but did prevent ignorant sex.

- Sydney Morning Herald

 

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It you are been hounded to send a sext and you feel you must. Download an image off the Internet and send that. Then when it gets passed around as it will, you can say its not you and prove it.

 
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